"Adopt a Marine" came across my email a few weeks ago. It was from a mom asking for support for her son and his comrades who were having a tough time dealing with the loss of some of their platoon members in Afghanistan. She was asking for cards and letters to be sent to help them while so far from home. This led to a friend taking charge, collecting some items and making up "care packages" to be sent overseas to let them know that they were being thought of and appreciated.
In the time of change that's been going on in our country in recent months, it's easy to forget our soldiers who are serving throughout the world, many in war zones. But the fact is that there are thousands of our fellow citizens away from their family, friends and way of life while serving in the harshest of conditions.
In researching information for this article, I came across numerous internet sites designed to outreach to the American people, providing information and ways in which support can be given. In working my way through them, I was struck by the touching stories of gratitude and appreciation from the soldiers for even the most basic items that they received from those back home. It's amazing to think that they don't have the simplest things that we take for granted and how much they're missed. Things like dental floss, deodorant, playing cards, lotion and potato chips. Or gum, candy, socks, even beef jerky. Or baby wipes, snacks, a soft blanket, ketchup, granola bars, kool-aid, lip balm and shampoo. The American way of life provides us the blessing to just open the cupboard and pull out these items or jump in the car, drive to the nearest store and stock up on what we want.
But this is the way of war - to be separated from those people and the things we know and love. Curling up to a loved one, reading a child a bedtime story, hot showers, eating popcorn while watching a movie - these are missing for our soldiers. So too is having a fresh razor blade, bug off, sunscreen or a nail file. But we also live in a time that the needs of the service men and women can be easily discovered and provided for. As I said, there are many websites that can be accessed to find this information, but two of them stand out to me as being current and seemingly efficient. They are www.soldiersangels.org and www.anysoldier.com. These sites provide all the information necessary to send cards, letters and packages overseas correctly in order to be sure they're received safely. (They caution not to send anything addressed to "Any Soldier" for security reasons as well as the postal service cannot deliver it without a complete address.)
The United Postal Service provides free boxes for use for military packages and a set shipping rate (no matter the weight) for each box. These can be obtained online at usps.com or at local post offices.
If you're feeling the tingling of compassion, patriotism or a "crockpot moment" (see the previous post below) while reading this, you may wish to visit these sites and find a way you can help. There are cards and letters to be sent. There are "care package" wishes to be fulfilled. There are blankets of hope that can be wrapped around the wounded as they're transported to military hospitals. There are scarves that can be made to protect their faces while the desert sand whips their skin. There are fun requests such as yo-yo's, nerf balls, squirt guns, puzzles, books and so on designed to get their minds off the hardships of war and the things they see if only for a little while. Packages can be made from scratch of the items you choose to send or there are ready-made ones you can purchase. It's almost too easy for such a meaningful gift.
When my friend took the packages to the post office for mailing, the postal clerk noted the military address and told her how much it meant to him and his fellow soldiers to receive a box from home while serving overseas. Years later, he still remembered the impact they had on all of them. It wasn't just the items themselves, but the encouragement, support and gratitude that went along with them -things he won't forget.
These men and women need us now. It's not about personal viewpoints on war and it's definitely not about politics. It's about support for a fellow American far from home. A letter or a box, just one or one every few months - it all helps and says we care. It's a simple gift of hope and caring until they all come home.



